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Recovery Assessment

Answer 7 questions. Get your personalized recovery plan.

How recently did you discover the betrayal?

Within the last 2 weeks
2 weeks to 3 months ago
3 to 12 months ago
Over a year ago

How would you describe your emotional state most days?

Overwhelmed, can barely function
Up and down, triggered frequently
Numb or disconnected
Starting to have some stable days

Are you currently in a relationship with the person who betrayed you?

Yes, and we are working on it together
Yes, but they are not doing the work
We are separating or separated
No, I am on my own

Do you currently have professional support (therapist, counselor, support group)?

No support right now
I have a therapist but they do not specialize in betrayal
I have a betrayal trauma specialist
I am in a support group

What is your biggest struggle right now?

Intrusive thoughts and mental movies
Trusting anyone, including myself
Figuring out who I am after this
Making decisions about my future

How is your body responding?

Not sleeping, not eating, physical pain
Disrupted sleep, anxiety in my body
Some tension but managing
My body is mostly okay

What would help you most right now?

Understanding what happened to me
Practical tools to get through each day
Connecting with others who understand
A clear plan for what comes next

Your Recovery Compass

Stage 2: Acute Response

This Week

Establish one daily grounding practice (5-minute breathing, walk, journaling)
Download our First 30 Days Survival Guide (free)
Identify one safe person you can talk to without judgment

This Month

Begin working through the Betrayal Recovery Toolkit ($47)
Schedule an intake with a betrayal trauma specialist
Join a peer support group (free through Seeding Treasures)

This Quarter

Complete the 5 Stages of Recovery self-paced course
Establish boundaries framework for your situation
Begin rebuilding self-trust through structured exercises

Recommended Resources

Article: The 5 Stages of Betrayal Recovery
Article: Why Can't I Stop Thinking About It?
Course: Setting Boundaries After Betrayal
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Resources

Clinical tools, education, and support organized by what you need right now

Free Guide

The First 30 Days: A Betrayal Trauma Survival Guide

42-page guide covering what to expect, how to stabilize, and when to seek help. Written by a licensed therapist.

Free PDF download
Toolkit

Betrayal Recovery Toolkit

Structured workbook with exercises for processing betrayal, managing triggers, and rebuilding trust in yourself.

$47
Journal

Betrayal Recovery Journal

Guided daily journal designed to track your emotional state, identify patterns, and document your healing progress.

$17
Workbook

Forgiveness Framework

A clinical approach to understanding forgiveness. What it is, what it isn't, and how to get there on your terms.

$47
Program

Hold Yourself Tight: Self-Guided EFT

Emotionally Focused Therapy exercises adapted for individual use. Reconnect with yourself after disconnection.

$47
Guide

Sexual Recovery After Betrayal

A sensitive, clinical guide to navigating intimacy and sexuality after sexual betrayal. No shame, just guidance.

$47
Self-Paced Course

The 5 Stages of Betrayal Recovery

Comprehensive video course walking through each stage of recovery with exercises, journaling prompts, and clinical guidance.

$197 lifetime access
Self-Paced Course

Setting Boundaries After Betrayal

Learn the difference between boundaries and ultimatums. Build a boundaries framework specific to your situation.

$97 lifetime access
Group Program

Compass Recovery Intensive

12-week facilitated group program with weekly sessions, peer support, and clinical guidance through each stage of recovery.

$1,797 12 weeks
Pay in Full 3x $647/mo
Workshop

Rebuilding Self-Trust

Live workshop series focused on the hardest part of recovery: learning to trust yourself again after your instincts feel broken.

$67 3 sessions
Career Path

Become a Betrayal Recovery Coach

Training and certification pathway for those who have walked through recovery and want to help others. Turn your pain into purpose.

Career Path

Licensed Therapist Specialization

For practicing therapists looking to specialize in betrayal trauma. Clinical training, supervision opportunities, and referral network.

Volunteer

Peer Support Facilitator

Lead support groups for people in recovery. Training provided. Requires at least 1 year post-discovery and completion of our facilitator program.

Opportunity

Content Contributors

Writers, researchers, and creators who want to contribute to the recovery library. Share your expertise or your story (anonymously if preferred).

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You are not broken. You are betrayed.

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